Perception become a person's reality....

Last night a really dear friend of mine told me that Perception becomes a person's reality...Usually I would have been like that is so true and then moved on from the statement. But Since I have been friends with them for only a brief moment. I have come to learn that there is always something deeper to what they are saying. Nothing is ever really surface with them. So I slept on it and then thought some more on it. Only because  one of my characteristics is to be extreme. Whether it is in thinking or buying groceries. So In my over thinking I had to fully understand what perception means...So I looked it up of course. peception then lead me to the word perceive. Perceive: To obtain awarness or understanding of. Now just for kicks. I know you know what reality means. but im going to give you the definition anyway. Reality: The quality or state of being real. A real event , enity, or state of affairs. In translation for the slower thinking people such as myself sometime...Perception becomes a person's reality - To become aware of a person's Truth. I know I spoke on living your truth already. I think when I got that bit of information. I became AWARE  of other peoples truths. Which plays a very important part of living your truth. In order to do this you have to be able to accept the people that God has blessed you with. You have to respect the thing that they are trying to accomplish for theirselves as well as yours. You have to be a Northern Star. Be Encouraging and Understanding. Sometimes we get so caught up in our own world that we don't realize that we aren't paying attention to the people who helped us along the way. Then we are perceived to be uncaring, dettached, or emotionally and physically unavailble. I know for a fact that the people you care about you never want them to perceive you to be that way. Sometime circumstances make you that way. Which it then turns into reality. Understanding plays a major role in this play. So if you have some friends that you just don't understand why they are doing what they do. Don't hold it against them. Find out if it is anything you could do to understand what they are going thru. So there reality can become apart of your reality. You have to love them in order to understand them. So I must work on my Attitude and how I treat the people I come in contact with....

LIFETIME ATTITUDE GOAL: IS TO THINK POSTIVE IN EVERYTHING THAT I DO. RIGHT ALL WRONGS. TAKE ON A SERVICE MENTALITY. HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE FOR MY ACTIONS. BE MORE UNDERSTANDING. DEVELOP A MORE FOCUSED MINDSET. STOP TAKING THINGS SO PERSONAL.

Love,
Aquelle